The most rewarding aspect of blogging is meeting the readers ... some who are writers, too! I invited regular commenter and romance writer Alyssia Kirkhart to join us today for an intimate chat.
Kim: You are a frequent commenter to SOS Aloha - but you are also a romance author. Tell us about some of your projects.
Alyssia: Wow, you know, it’s amazing when someone else says it—you’re a romance author. Hey! Meet my friend, Alyssia. She’s a romance author! You have no idea how long it took to get that simple phrase into my own head, let alone hear it from someone else. Still sends me for a whirl. So, thank you for that. As for my projects, I’ve been writing historical romance off and on since I was fourteen, but seriously for publication since early 2009. My first novel was that infamous “practice” story, where you get more things wrong than right, but it was a betrothal tale—Irish lass, English lord betrothed since the cradle. Lots of fun, and it brought in some great characters I used in the next novel, Enraptured. That’s my pride and joy, the novel for which I’m currently seeking publication. Marriage of convenience, I guess you’d call it, although the hero and heroine are actually forced to marry in effort to hush a scandal. Oh, and they’re penniless. Live in a beat up, mottled old castle. In the North, of all places—far, far from their posh London society. Every day is a struggle for them, which ended up being great fun for me as a writer (in an evil villain Wicked Witch of the West sort of way, yes, but there it is…). Plus, Enraptured gave me the kids I needed for my next project: a Steampunk YA with time travel and airships and all sorts of fun stuff.
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Kim: What are some of the resources you draw upon to write, stay motivated to write, and stay positive that you will be published?
Alyssia: I read. Constantly. In fact, that’s my biggest recommendation to anyone attempting to write for the sake of publication. Read, read, read. Then, read some more. And not just what you write. Read fiction and nonfiction. Adult and young adult. Horror, historical, contemporary, sci-fi—every genre and subgenre out there has something wonderful to offer. Something new and fresh. Not to mention you’ll draw ideas for your own projects. Really, that’s what keeps me going. Wonderful literature, interesting plot lines, captivating dialogue, and memorable characters. They feed my soul, make me realize that, “Hey! I can do this, too! I can create my own world with my own people, and readers will love it.” At least, I certainly hope they will. If you’re gonna dream, dream big, right?
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Kim: You are from Louisiana - tell us your favorite site, smell, and sound from the Pelican State?
Alyssia: The food. Hands down. Really, have you ever had Cajun cuisine? And I’m not talking Cajun cuisine in, like, Los Angeles or Chicago or wherever someone spends millions opening a fabulous looking restaurant and hiring some big shot artist to paint a crawfish (down ‘round here we call them there mudbugs) on a pretty scripted sign. I mean a South Louisiana, hole-in-the-wall, get lost ten times trying to find it kind of place where, when you walk in and have a seat, the waitress says, “Hi dere, folks. How’s ya momma ‘n ‘em?” Seafood Etouffee, Gumbo (with soft shell crabs… yum!), Crawfish Bisque, Fried Alligator, Boudin, Shrimp Dianne, Red Snapper Pontchartrain… the list goes on and on. Guaranteed you’ll be stuffed to the brim, and when the waitress sashays on back, asks if you want a slice of their classic bread pudding (Chef’s momma’s recipe, don’t cha know?), you’ll just sort of groan in blissful agony. Because really, at this point you’re incapable of anything more.
Oh, and don’t be surprised when she giggles in the face of your misery, lets out a peel of that tinkling southern belle laughter, slaps ya on the back, and says, “Laissez les bon temps roulez!”
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Mahalo, Alyssia, for joining us today. I look forward to meeting you in person at RWA's book signing! In honor of Alyssia's motivation, I am giving away a book of choice from my RWA stash. To enter the giveaway,
1. Leave a comment about what motivates you to fulfill a dream.
My followers' positive comments motivate me to blog each day!
2. This giveaway is open to all readers.
3. Comments are open through Saturday, July 30, 10 pm. I'll post the winner on Sunday, July 31.
Mahalo,
Kim in Hawaii
Speaking of food, I missed the Hawaiian food during my travels - fresh fruit, shaved ice, plate lunches, and loco moco (fried egg atop a hamburger patty with a side of rice).
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At my age I think I've fulfilled my dream. I'm married to a wonderful man and I have two very spoiled cats. Hopefully my health will stay good so that when we retire we can travel.
ReplyDeleteWhat motives me everyday is to just get things done today, just do it, so I won't have it on my list of to do things tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteI too have passed on dreams but now I dream for my children!
ReplyDeleteI lived in Gulfport, Mississippi for a while and got to make a couple of trips to New Orleans. We went once with someone from there and he took us to this restaurant (looked like a large gym lol) and you got this large tray of "mudfish." It was wonderful lol.
catslady
Oh, I am hungry now for Cajun food! Keep up the good spirits, Alyssia!
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My dream is for my children and grandchildren to be happy in their lives. For me, I just want to finish all the books in my TBR pile! lol
ReplyDeleteSometimes a little advice and encouragement are what gets me motivated to get me to do or go after something I'm after.
ReplyDeleteChocolate gets me moving!
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Sue
What motivates me to accomplish a dream is my family - my mom especially- she's always rooting for me to conquer my fears and try new things.
ReplyDeleteOn a side note- I would love to have some Cajun food...my sister lived in New Orleans for almost 2 years but I never got a chance to visit her while she was there...Oh and like Carol..I need to finish reading the books in my tbr..lol
I try to motivate myself with my dreams, but for the times that that isn't enough, I reward myself with chocolate for getting stuff done. Yummy chocolate.
ReplyDeleteI love Alyssia's positive attitude and her sexy cover! A smile motivates me!
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Wow, y'all! Thank you for all the sweet compliments, the amazing words of inspiration, and, of course, a BIG thanks to Kim for hosting me today. Each and every one of you inspire me more than you know. Keep writing, keep reading, and, above all, keep striving to achieve your goals and dreams!
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Alyssia
if I know I want to do something i just do it. I motivate myself because I want to get it done I guess.
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My family is my biggest supporter and motivator in all my endeavors! They encourage me to have dreams and to always keep striving and best of all to believe in myself.
ReplyDeleteMy kids are very good motivators when it comes to dreams or just small things that have to be done! Thanks for a great post today!
ReplyDelete4 yrs ago I sold my condo and bought a house with a garage and master bath. Now I wonder if I did the right thing since the USA is going to hell in a hand basket. I should have stayed in my condo but since I did not I will do whatever I have to do to keep going. I am retired now but worked over 40 yrs and would love to enjoy my retirement. I know how to do without and make sacrifices to make my dreams come true.
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I'm motivated by my alarm clock that goes off at 3:50am every weekday morning to get me out off bed to shut it off. Then its the start of a new day.
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Have a good one Ann/alba
I agree about dreaming big, but right now after seeing all that delicious food I am dreaming about lunch.
ReplyDeleteMy family is definitely my biggest motivation. Also, I just hate the thought of not finishing anything.
ReplyDeleteMy family is what motivates me, my mom is my hero.
ReplyDeleteWhat motivates me is thinking about making my family proud because they are always the first ones to give encouragement and support!
ReplyDeleteFun stories. And I love when characters from one story inspire the ones in a new book.
ReplyDeleteAh. Shave Ice. With macadamia nut ice. *sigh*
*ice cream
ReplyDeleteI was so capture by the moment my fingers stopped typing.
That's my story, and I'm sticking to it.
Great interview. Good advice too!
ReplyDeleteI was silly enough to give up on a past dream. I'm not going to do it again. When I have thoughts of giving up again, I remind myself of how silly I had been ;)
My dreams motivate me to make them into reality.
ReplyDeleteAlyssia--Welcome, from a fellow South La. Cajun! Aahhhh...the food. I've just returned from a three-week European vacation (did someone say dreams, here?) but there is NOTHING like the taste of South La. food! Mmmmmmm. Thanks for a fun column.
ReplyDeleteGreat advice, Alyssia! I enjoyed the scene you set down at that there little hole-in-the wall. And I'm madly craving some Cajun, though I've never had the real thing.
ReplyDeleteGosh, I'm getting peckish from looking at all the food!
ReplyDeleteMy greatest motivator is my family. They want me to succeed at whatever I chose and to be happy. Such pressure! :)
I've been trying to finish a book that I've been writing for years and my parents have always encouraged me. They always told me that I could do anything. I work on it as often as I can, when I'm not looking for work or taking care of my parents who are disabled, but I'm going keep working on it and hopefully finish it someday.
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My mom motivates me. She pushes me to go after everything i want. She wants me to be happy. I get motivated by my mom because shes always encouraging me, and stands beside me and she lets me know shes there and how proud she is of me. :) I like knowing that i can make her just and happy as she makes me.
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