
The Hawaiian word of the day is
ala
It is wake.
E ala, ua ao, us malamalama.
Wake, it is light, it is bright.
Mia Marlowe joins us today to celebrate her new romance novel (and series) with Connie Mason, WAKING UP WITH A RAKE, Book 1 in the Royal Rakes.
First a quick note of thanks to Kim for the lovely couple of days she squired me and my fam around Oahu last May. We had such an incredible time with you. Thanks again from the bottom of my heart! And now on to the topic at hand which is…
How a Regency Hero Ties the Knot
No, I’m not talking about his neck cloth, though there were so many different ways to wear a cravat, the topic probably deserves its own blog post! I’m talking about the “Parson’s mousetrap,” being “leg-shackled,” “riveted,” or becoming “tenants for life.” In other words, getting married during the Regency era, the time period in which WAKING UP WITH A RAKE is set.
There were three ways to go about it. The first and arguably most correct way was to have a fairly short engagement period, often less than a month, culminating in the “reading of the banns” on three consecutive Sundays prior to the wedding. The purpose of the banns was so that any legal impediment to the union might be brought to light before the couple said “I do.”
Church weddings were short affairs with relatively few people in attendance. Invitations were not typically sent to distant guests, though friends and family would be notified after the ceremony had taken place. In the Anglican Church, weddings had to be conducted between 8 AM and noon. No romantic candlelit evening ceremony for a conventional Regency bride.
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The second way to wed was by special license. This was an expensive option since it had to be procured from the Archbishop of Canterbury at a cost of over 20 guineas! But it was the preferred method of the aristocracy because it meant they could dispense with the banns, have the wedding at home or wherever they chose, and at any time of the day. And in case you’re wondering, the legal age for marriage during the Regency was 21, but in 1823, it was lowered to 14 for men, 12 for ladies.
The third, and the scandalous way to wed was to elope to Gretna Green. Scotland still recognized the old “handfast” marriage, circumventing the need for the banns or a license. Any couple could declare their intent to be married before a witness (usually the blacksmith since his shop was at the crossroads of the town) and they were declared man and wife.
Here’s a snippet from the wedding scene in WAKING UP WITH A RAKE:
Silence reigned for half a minute. In the church rite, the vicar read the vow from his book of services and the couple recited after him. Rhys looked askance at MacDermot. “Aren’t you going to lead us?”
“How should I know what ye intend to promise the lady?” He pronounced the word as if it were “li-dey.” “I’m no’ a real priest, ye ken. Speak but the words in yer heart, man, and I’ll pronounce ye marrit when the pair o’ ye reach an end of yer jawin’.”
“Are you sure this is legal?” Rhys asked.
“Oh, aye. Folk been marryin’ this way in these parts since the Flood. Once ye leave the presence o’ the anvil, ye’ll be marrit before God and man.”
Rhys tipped his head in a gesture that suggested he was still dubious about the whole process, but he was willing to proceed. He met Olivia’s gaze directly.
“Olivia Marguerite Symon, I have nothing you could want. No fortune compared to the one you’re leaving in your father’s house. No title. Once my father dies and my brother ascends to the marquisate, I’ll be plain Mr. Warrington.” A frown marred his brow. “Come to think of it, I can’t even offer you a good name because I’ve soiled mine rather badly up to this point.”
He squeezed her fingers and gazed at her earnestly.
“So all I can offer you is myself and hope it’s enough,” he said, his voice husky with emotion. “I’ll try mightily not to shame you with bad behavior, though you know as well as I, I’ve had little practice with good. I’ll provide for your comfort as best I can and protect you as long as I have a beating heart. I’ll stand by you, in sickness or in health. I’ll love you with my body and honor you with all that is in me. And if by some miracle we reach old age together, I’ll sit beside you as the shadows fall and hold your hand, until we are dust.”
Olivia’s mouth gaped a bit and tears trembled on her lashes. Who would have guessed her rake had the soul of a poet?
“These things I vow,” Rhys said. “Am I enough?”
And if you’d like to read more, you know what to do! ;-) Thanks for letting me drop by, Kim!
Here’s a snippet from the wedding scene in WAKING UP WITH A RAKE:
Silence reigned for half a minute. In the church rite, the vicar read the vow from his book of services and the couple recited after him. Rhys looked askance at MacDermot. “Aren’t you going to lead us?”
“How should I know what ye intend to promise the lady?” He pronounced the word as if it were “li-dey.” “I’m no’ a real priest, ye ken. Speak but the words in yer heart, man, and I’ll pronounce ye marrit when the pair o’ ye reach an end of yer jawin’.”
“Are you sure this is legal?” Rhys asked.
“Oh, aye. Folk been marryin’ this way in these parts since the Flood. Once ye leave the presence o’ the anvil, ye’ll be marrit before God and man.”
Rhys tipped his head in a gesture that suggested he was still dubious about the whole process, but he was willing to proceed. He met Olivia’s gaze directly.
“Olivia Marguerite Symon, I have nothing you could want. No fortune compared to the one you’re leaving in your father’s house. No title. Once my father dies and my brother ascends to the marquisate, I’ll be plain Mr. Warrington.” A frown marred his brow. “Come to think of it, I can’t even offer you a good name because I’ve soiled mine rather badly up to this point.”
He squeezed her fingers and gazed at her earnestly.
“So all I can offer you is myself and hope it’s enough,” he said, his voice husky with emotion. “I’ll try mightily not to shame you with bad behavior, though you know as well as I, I’ve had little practice with good. I’ll provide for your comfort as best I can and protect you as long as I have a beating heart. I’ll stand by you, in sickness or in health. I’ll love you with my body and honor you with all that is in me. And if by some miracle we reach old age together, I’ll sit beside you as the shadows fall and hold your hand, until we are dust.”
Olivia’s mouth gaped a bit and tears trembled on her lashes. Who would have guessed her rake had the soul of a poet?
“These things I vow,” Rhys said. “Am I enough?”

And if you’d like to read more, you know what to do! ;-) Thanks for letting me drop by, Kim!
WAKING UP WITH A RAKE BY CONNIE MASON AND MIA MARLOWE – IN STORES JANUARY 2013
The Fate of England's Monarchy Is In The Hands of Three Notorious Rakes.
To prevent three royal dukes from marrying their way onto the throne, heroic, selfless agents for the crown will be dispatched...to seduce the dukes' intended brides. These wickedly debauched rakes will rumple sheets and cause a scandal. But they just might fall into their own trap... After he's blamed for a botched assignment during war, former cavalry officer Rhys Warrick turns his back on "honor." He spends his nights in brothels doing his best to live down to the expectations of his disapproving family. But one last mission could restore the reputation he's so thoroughly sullied. All he has to do is seduce and ruin Miss Olivia Symon and his military record will be cleared. For a man with Rhys's reputation, ravishing the delectably innocent miss should be easy. But Olivia's honesty and bold curiosity stir more than Rhys's desire. Suddenly the heart he thought he left on the battlefield is about to surrender...
To prevent three royal dukes from marrying their way onto the throne, heroic, selfless agents for the crown will be dispatched...to seduce the dukes' intended brides. These wickedly debauched rakes will rumple sheets and cause a scandal. But they just might fall into their own trap... After he's blamed for a botched assignment during war, former cavalry officer Rhys Warrick turns his back on "honor." He spends his nights in brothels doing his best to live down to the expectations of his disapproving family. But one last mission could restore the reputation he's so thoroughly sullied. All he has to do is seduce and ruin Miss Olivia Symon and his military record will be cleared. For a man with Rhys's reputation, ravishing the delectably innocent miss should be easy. But Olivia's honesty and bold curiosity stir more than Rhys's desire. Suddenly the heart he thought he left on the battlefield is about to surrender...
ABOUT THE AUTHORS
Connie Mason is a New York Times bestselling author of more than 50 novels. She was named Storyteller of the Year in 1990 and received a Career Achievement Award from RT Book Reviews in 1994. She currently lives in Florida. Mia Marlowe is a highly acclaimed new voice in romance whose debut novel released in Spring 2011 from Kensington. She lives in Boston, MA. Together, they are working on the next book in the Royal Rakes series, Romanced By a Rake, which will be in stores in June 2013. For more information, please visit conniemason.com, miamarlowe.com and find Mia on Twitter, @Mia_Marlowe, and on Facebook at this link.
To Purchase Waking Up with a Rake:
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Sourcebooks
Discover a New Love
Connie Mason is a New York Times bestselling author of more than 50 novels. She was named Storyteller of the Year in 1990 and received a Career Achievement Award from RT Book Reviews in 1994. She currently lives in Florida. Mia Marlowe is a highly acclaimed new voice in romance whose debut novel released in Spring 2011 from Kensington. She lives in Boston, MA. Together, they are working on the next book in the Royal Rakes series, Romanced By a Rake, which will be in stores in June 2013. For more information, please visit conniemason.com, miamarlowe.com and find Mia on Twitter, @Mia_Marlowe, and on Facebook at this link.
To Purchase Waking Up with a Rake:
Amazon Barnes and Noble
Books-a-Million
Chapters/Indigo
IndieBound
Sourcebooks
Discover a New Love

Mahalo, Mia, for your guest post! Sourcebooks is giving away a print copy of WAKING UP WITH A RAKE to one randomly selected commenter. To enter the giveaway,
1. Leave a comment about waking up in the morning - what time? Are you an eager beaver or a grumpy goose?
I have to get my kids up at 6:45 am and I am a grumpy goose!
I have to get my kids up at 6:45 am and I am a grumpy goose!
2. Sourcebooks' giveaway is open to North American residents. I'll giveaway a "wake up" Hawaiian souvenir to one international reader.
3. Comments are open through Saturday, February 2, 10 pm. I'll post the winner on Sunday, February 3.
Mahalo,
Kim in Hawaii




I'm so glad I don't have to get up early any more. My daughter is grown and I am a night owl. It's 2 am here right now and I'm still up. I am a grumpy goose for sure. I only sleep for about 4 hours when I do got to bed anyway but I really hate getting woke up when I'm asleep.
ReplyDeleteI used to be a night owl, but now I hit the sack fairly early and wake up naturally at about 5 AM. On the plus side, I really enjoy sunrises...
DeleteI'm a grumpy goose. I usually wake up at seven and prepare for work. Though, their are times, when I wake up in high spirits.
ReplyDeleteOne of the nice things about being an early riser, is that I can get a lot done when the rest of the house is quiet. Sometimes, that before 9 AM time period is my most productive all day.
DeleteI wake up an eager beaver but by mid-afternoon I'm a grumpy goose!
ReplyDeleteAbout 2:30 pm, I'm ready for another cup of the DH's excellent coffee too.
DeleteI get up between 5:30 and 6:00 most days. I'm not happy but I'm not grumpy either.
ReplyDeleteI guess being able to work from home now makes me less of a grouse when I wake than I used to be. When I was working as a banker, there was so much to do, so much to get ready for. Making things up for a living doesn't require wearing heels and full make-up unless I want it to.
DeleteI am a grumpy goose, I get up at 3:30 am. I need to be at work at 5 am. Everyone says how lucky I am to get off at 2 pm, but I hate getting up in what is really the middle of the night.
ReplyDeleteOh, my, that is rough. Sounds like a sunrise TV anchor's schedule. Early off is nice, but you probably have to go to bed pretty early too. Maybe it will change in the future. ;-)
DeleteI am not a morning person at all & am nonfunctional before the sun rises (unless i've yet to go to bed) & am a firm believer that morning shouldn't start before 9am :-)
ReplyDeleteI think our rhythms change throughout our lives. I used to be a nightowl and slept till noon when I could get away with it. Now I'd have to be chained to the bed...hmm, perhaps I could suggest that to the DH some Saturday morning...
DeleteI'm not a morning person and I'm so happy that I no longer have a set time I need to wake in the morning. When I worked for a large corporation, I woke at 5 a.m. and was on the way to work by 6. That was NO FUN!
ReplyDeleteGreat excerpt. Thanks.
Glad your schedule is more to your liking now!
DeleteI'm so not a morning person either. Not that I'm grumpy, I'm just still a little muddle headed. I read in bed until around 1 a.m. and then it takes me a while to fall asleep afterwards. I don't get up until about 8 ish, and then I have to have a nice cup of tea to get me going.
ReplyDeleteI'm afraid tea won't do it for me. I need the hard-core, freshly ground coffee my DH fixes every day. One of the worst things about having the colonoscopy yesterday was the caffeine headache. My procedure was late in the day and the waiting was hardest on my caffeine-starved brain.
DeleteI am not a morning person for sure... unfortunately like you, I have to get up early because of the kids...
ReplyDeleteI know you don't want to hear this, but you will eventually miss those early moments with them.
DeleteCongrats to Connie and Mia on the new release! Grr... I'm not a morning person by choice. I have to get up at 0630 for work. Bleh.
ReplyDeleteI think choice really does play a huge part in how we feel about our schedule. I'm a lucky girl and I know it, but I promise you that I do work hard each day...even if it's in my sluvvies and uggs.
DeleteDuring the week I get up around 6:50am. I have to get up and get ready to take the kids to school. I have to get my boy dressed and fight with my daughter to get her butt out of bed. I then get them breakfast and them get them to school before 8:20am. Usually make it on time, but occasionally late. I am in a pretty good mood when I get up, but sometimes go back and take a nap. I work Wednedsay through sunday 2nd shift and sometime I am tired on the weekends. but I love my kids and my job, so it is well worth it.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the awesome giveaway. Both Connie and Mia are new authors for me. Thanks for the giveaway.
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2nd shifts can be tough. A friend of mine worked at the hospital for 2 12 hour night shifts on weekends but was paid as if she worked 5 8 hour day shifts through the week. She loved having the days off and the higher pay per hour, but every week her night and day was turned around for a few days. Then she had to right herself in time to do it again the next weekend.
DeleteI'm a night owl but luckily I now get to sleep in most mornings (and the ones I don't really kill me). I love to just lay there a bit (usually I have a couple of cats on me)and take my time rising.
ReplyDeleteGoing at your own pace is lovely!
DeleteMy alarm goes off at 6:30 every morning to get my oldest off to school... If my youngest is still sleeping after he leaves i crawl back into bed... Till about 8 which is the "normal time for the youngest to get up... On days hubby is off... I sleep in and he deals with the boys as I am in my last year of bachelors college and stay up super late doing homework most nights till 12-2 sometimes. But yep I am not a morning person and get grumpy if someone wakes me up before i have to get up lol.
ReplyDeletej.m.platt83@gmail.com
Congrats on working on your degree! It's much harder to do once you have a family, so kudos! And yay for a husband who helps with the kids.
DeleteDefinitely a grumpy goose although retirement has meant that, on morning when even I can't stand myself, I can try waking again later.
ReplyDeleteOh, don't say that. You can always stand yourself. I think we women in general are too hard on ourselves. You're a worthy person who has earned the right to try waking again later if you like.
DeleteI am a grumpy goose. It's hard for me to get up before 9:00 am since retirement. Because of my husband's health, we often have to get up at 6:00 or 7:00 for doctor's appointments. I have to have at least 2 cups of coffee to wake up. Lol!
ReplyDeleteOk, if I was getting up to see a doctor, I'd be grumpy too. Wishing better health for your husband. It's harder to watch the one we love suffer than to go through a health challenge ourselves.
DeleteI am usually an eager beaver but lately I have been a grumpy goose.
ReplyDeleteHopefully that pendulum will swing back for you soon.
DeleteI don't have to get up early these days, but I am happy person in the morning - much to the disgust of my grumpy goose family.
ReplyDeleteOh, I am mindful of that! When I was in HS, I went to cheerleading camp one summer and one member of our squad was a lark. I wanted to strangle her cheerful little neck each morning because back then any time before 9 AM was excruciating for me.
DeleteNow, of course, I'm the lark, but I tone it down when the grouse wakes up.
I usually get between 7 and 8. I don't say much more than "good morning" until I've had a couple cups of coffee. It takes me a while to really wake up.
ReplyDeleteCoffee is really incredible, isn't it? If it tasted as good as it smells, it would have to be a controlled substance. (I have to lace mine with plenty of creamer, but it's a great caffeine-delivery method!)
Deletegrumpy goose
ReplyDeleteSending ;-) to you anyway. Grumpies need love too.
DeleteI get up about 6:40 during the week, and my inclination is grumpy goose, so I do my best to stay away from other people till I'm past it! I've never been a morning person, even as a pre-schooler.
ReplyDeleteAs a child, I only woke early voluntarily on Christmas morning.
DeleteI'm a night owl, so I can definitely be a grumpy goose if I have to get up early, and I do Monday through Friday. I usually get to work a little early so I can sit and read and relax before having to interact with anyone. On the weekends, I love to sleep in. It has to be something really special to get me up early on the weekend. :D
ReplyDeleteWhen I used to work at the bank, one of my co-workers would sit in her car and read for a bit before she headed home. It was her decompression time.
DeleteI am definitely a grumpy goose, but nothing compared to my daughter.
ReplyDeleteOur kids do tend to be us in spades, don't they? My daughter always says, "Mirror, mirror on the wall. I am my mother, after all!"
DeleteI have to wake up at 6 AM for work, and it's usually rough going, as I'm up until the wee hours of morning. =___=
ReplyDeleteOh, sad. I hope your schedule will change for the better soon, Julie.
DeleteI wake up on 06:45 too, bath and prepare my self to go to work on 07:30
ReplyDeleteSounds like you have to move quickly in the morning, Eli. Part of what I love about my schedule is that I can be leisurely about things.
DeleteKim--I'm so sorry I wasn't here yesterday. I had a colonoscopy and it sort of wiped me out. But the good news is that I got a good report. I'm now 4 years cancer free!
ReplyDeleteI share this because I had zero symptoms back in 2008 when I was first diagnosed. My eager-beaver young doctor just recommended having a baseline colonoscopy done as part of a yearly physical. It turned out to be life-saving because we caught the cancer at an early stage.
So if your doc recommends a screening, don't put it off. What you don't know can hurt you.
I get up at 6 AM in order to wake up my daughter for work. SHE is a night person and a real grump in the mornng. LOL I, on the other hand am definately a morning person.
ReplyDeleteMy daughter works 4-midnight 5 nights a week, so she is not a morning person, but that's ok. Her day starts later anyway.
DeleteJust a quick invite to everyone who's planning to go to the RT Booklovers' Convention in Kansas City this May. I'm one of the sponsors of the FOUNTAIN CITY JAZZ CLUB BREAKFAST! It'll be held on Friday morning May 3rd around 8-ish. Mimosas and hot jazz for all! Hope to see you there.
ReplyDeleteI love mornings...yup. To spend fast asleep in bed. If I had a choice I wouldn't get up till the afternoon! I love to read till the wee hours of the morning (my record is 6am). When I have to get up early for work it's always such a chore *hits the snooze button for the XXth time.....
ReplyDeleteI've become a morning person since I have my cats. They wake me up and beg for breakfast pretty early. I've come to like spending time with them in darkness and almost silence.
ReplyDeleteOh , those are great vows, bearing his soul so to speak.
ReplyDeleteI have a touch of Narcolepsy so I am no longer a good morning person. I get up at 6 am to wake the wee ones for school and head back to bed. Some days I don't get back up until 12 pm or there abouts. Some days I make my self get up earlier but I walk around yawning all the time. It's hard on the dh he wants to go to bed early and I just lay there my mind spinning.
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For years I had to be to work at 6:00am. I never got used to getting up early and being to work so early. I'm so glad that is not the case anymore. I think my ideal wake up time is 7:30am, but sometimes I am up earlier, sometimes a bit later. I do love mornings, but just not too early.
ReplyDeleteGrumpy goose, all the way!!! I'm a night owl so I hate getting up early! Guess it's a good thing I don't have to be at work until 10. Thanks forthe giveaway. The book sounds really good.
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I get up early, something I did when my kids were in high school and then never changed. I like the early morning quiet.
ReplyDeleteLoved the excerpt! I am adding this one to my TBR. :)
ReplyDeleteThe time that I get up depends on my little one. We don't have a set time, unless I have to take my hubby to work, then it is 6:30am. My 14 year old gets himself up and ready for school, but my 3 year old usually wakes between 7:30-8:30. Not a bad time, except that I am not a morning person. I need at least 30 minutes and coffee to wake up. I wish I could wake up and be ready to go. Lol.